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Saturday, August 05, 2006

another day in the books

well it did not start out the way that i had hoped but none the less. it was anohter day done. usually at the start of a fresh month i do not have to work on saturday. however since our team did not hit our goal. thwy are makin us work a sever amount of OT. thinking that it will drive our #'s down. how crazy. work your employees to the bone month after month w/ no break or time off. yeah real good motivation to get them back on your side. how about a reward or a job well done the other 11x's that you hit your goal this year.

o well i am sorry enough about work. i know... you really don't want to hear about it but my job really can take a toll on a person. i am a collector / skiptracer for a very well know company. prior to my job i am currently in i have never had a collections job. i just kinda fell into it .. got comfy now don't really want to leave. (although the time may be coming soon)
i never would have gotten into it if i had known that it is pretty much: u get paid to argue w/ people all day. someone tells you that a loved one just passed away, and they have no $$$ and can't make it on their own. i have to tell them that i am sorry but you still need to pay.
this really gets to you. i find sometimes when i go home after a long day @ wrk (which seems like all the time) .. that i get snippy .. i snap sometimes on people over the sligghtest thing. if you had known me before my current job. you would know that i am not a very agressive person. this job just does things to you. you do not feel like yourself sometimes. i try not to take the job home w/ me .. .but i am there so much the line between home and work becomes blurred... literally working 12 hour days .. that means between commuting getting ready, and all the other nonsense involved w/ wrk.. i get about 8 hours in a 24 hour day (excludng sleep) to be with my loved ones or have some time for myself.

i guess that is a good thing that i do not have a child yet, i would not be able to give it the same love that both my parents have given me and all of my siblings. i have no idea how they did it. i have a cat and a brand new puppy. i try to not get the cat jealous by playing w. the pup to much. theses are just pets, how my parents were able to raise 4 wonderful kids and make every one of them feel loved and special. how do they do it.
of course when i was younger i did not see things this way. when i had a curfew or was nto allowed to go and do certain things, i would get angry with my parents. i would start a fight and say stupid things thinking that they did not want me to have a good time. when all that they were doing was looking out for my best intrests, and making sure that i would not get into trouble. i can only hope that i am half as good as my rents were on bringing us up.
family above all.....
of course you need a job to have money to put a roof over you and your family. but keep in mind what good the roof. if there is no family underneath to protect.

1 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

The greatest coach can't make a bad team great. You need something to work with. Mom and I were very lucky to have 4 wonderfull kids that each had their own unique style. We just tried to let each of you experiance life and grow sometimes in different paths. We may have been strict at times but always with your best interest. As you now know it was to keep you safe and near us more often. If we new how far away you would all get we would have been a little stricter. Mom wanted us to try something like Truman and tell you there is no life off of Long Island. I should have listend

The best gift anyone can give is support and we fortunatly come from a very big family that believes FAMILY always comes first. I am very proud of how all our kids turned into adults that anyone would be gratefull to have as a friend. You are all different in many ways but the core is the same. You all care about each other first but also have a loving nature toward people in general.

I have always believed time spent with a child is more precious then anything money can buy. So work while you need to but always make time for loved ones. I also believe making less money at a job you love is significantly better than a fortune gained spending time doing something you dislike. Probably why you never lived in a mansion

Keep the faith

FAMILY FOREVER

Love DAD

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